In today's era, women can choose to be a house wife or a career woman. She should be given a choice to do what she wants because marriage is above all not bondage or ne controlled. If she graduated college in flying colors & wanted to pursue her dreams, marriage should not get in the way. It is sexist that when a woman gets married she should just stay at home doing household chores and taking care of the children. She can pursue her dreams while kids & household chores should be delegated to both the wife and husband, taking turns.